Tuesday, January 10, 2017

He's helping his little brother learn to walk


I spent the first three years of Max's life wondering if he would walk, right up until the moment he took his first independent steps on his third birthday. Yesterday, I watched Max coach Ben along; he's just started to toddle. Once again, I was struck by how far Max has come.

Max's early childhood was full of question marks for me: Would he walk? Talk? Learn to eat and drink on his own? Learn to pick up toys on his own? Learn the ABC's and numbers? I ached to know what he would be able to do.

I wanted that crystal ball. I took Max to specialist after specialist, looking for answers that they couldn't give. Because no doctor, no matter how remarkable, can foresee the future of a baby with brain damage.

I had one of those "If only the me of 14 years ago could have seen this back then" moments in the kitchen last night as Max stood in front of Ben, who was doing that toddler waddle. 


Sometimes, the baby grabs Max's hand and the two of them stroll around our first floor together as I tag behind them like a groupie, taking it all in.

Seeing Ben learning to walk is a thrill in its own right (it is for Max, too, if you couldn't already tell by his squeal). I adore watching the baby do that drunk Frankenstein gait, control his balance, plop down, get right back up again and grow more and more confident. I love watching Sabrina and Max encourage him.

But there's an extra layer of joy, and that is watching my big boy—the one I wasn't sure would walk—cheer his toddling brother on.

12 comments:

  1. So cute! You must be so proud of Max. Isn't it lovely when our special kids reach a stage where they can play the big brother/sister to their younger siblings? - Alyssa

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  2. Oh I adore this. Both your boys are so great!

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  3. Very cute! My brother and his family moved in with us for a year right before my niece starting walking. It was the cool to watch her go from crawling to walking, I'll never forget it

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    1. None of us will forget this! That's one of the many cool things about having a large age gap among siblings.

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  4. Gee, I've been reading your blog for many years, and those were pretty clear "Ben, this way" s! When I first watched the video I was in a loud area and thought it must have been someone else!

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    1. So cool that you noticed that. Max's speech has definitely gotten clearer in recent years.

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  5. Oh my gosh! Ben is SO ADORABLE! I love Max's squeal too of course!

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  6. This is the best! What a special time for you and your family!


    Paige
    http://thehappyflammily.com

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  7. This is so sweet. I totally get it. My own son is 14. I was so scared when he was first diagnosed with this T.S.. If only "I"... the "I" that is me now... could have given the "Me" back then a hug and so much advice. :)

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Thanks for sharing!



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