Wednesday, April 30, 2014

When life gets ridiculous, laugh

Every Tuesday, Max comes home from school with a "Word of the Week" sheet to fill out. He has to provide a synonym and an antonym, and use the word in a sentence. Every Tuesday night, he insists on making a sentence about Cars 2 Talking Lightning McQueen, his longtime love/obsession. "Lightning McQueen" will not suffice. Oh, nooooooooo. It must be "Cars 2 Talking Lightning McQueen," the present he got for his birthday.

As much as I'd like for Max to branch out, if it gets him interested in creating sentences, I'll take it. Last week's word: "convex." Our sentence: "The rubber part of Cars 2 Talking Lightning McQueen's tires are convex." All the sentences have sort of jumbled together in my mind, but they're all along the lines of "Cars 2 Talking Lighting McQueen often finds himself in predicaments but then figures things out."

Usually, I perch on the edge of Max's bed, and we go over the sheet. This week's word: "veranda." Max was a little stumped, so we put our heads together and came up with this:

Suddenly, I giggled. Because the ridiculousness of the sentence—and of having to constantly come up with ones that involve "Cars 2 Talking Lighting McQueen"—hit me. Then I started all-out laughing, until I had tears in my eyes. "Max," I finally gasped, "it's just funny to me that we keep coming up with Cars 2 Talking Lightning McQueen sentences." He giggled. I'm pretty sure he knows that he's being ridiculous, but he doesn't care.

I think it is perfectly normal to laugh like this. Kids do out-there things, and just because Max has special needs doesn't mean he should be treated like some hothouse flower. We tease him about his quirks like any family teases any kid. Max has this off again/on again habit of stomping on the floor when he watches TV. It's on again right now. The other day, as he was stomp-stomp-stomping away, Dave, Sabrina and I all started stomping our feet on the living room floor, rhythmically, like he does. He thought it was a laugh riot.

So when I find something Max is doing comical, I'm going to laugh with him about it. It's certainly better than the alternative, which would be to run screaming down the street, naked and shouting "CARS 2 TALKING LIGHTNING MCQUEEN! CARS 2 TALKING LIGHTNING MCQUEEN!" 

For years, I have indulged Max's obsessions, whether it's repeating phrases, buying him purple stuff or going through car washes. At times, I feel like I am living in a Coen brothers movie. 

It feels really, really good to laugh. 

Photo: Flickr/cynicalview


  1. I think it's awesome that he knows as well as you do that it's silly, but he still has fun with it like that. All kids have their "things" and that's his... I love these stories of the moments you guys share like this. I'm sure both of you will treasure the memories of them forever. :)

    Speaking of talking McQueen, was he everything Max hoped for? I sure hope so.

    1. Let me just say: Max has a shrine for Cars 2 Talking Lightning McQueen in his bedroom. Nobody is allowed to touch Lightning except Max.

    2. That's awesome. I'm so glad it's everything he wanted, after wanting it so hard for so long. Though I have to admit I'm a little jealous... I want one too! ;)

  2. Those obsessions (although sometimes annoying for us) lead to such joy for our kiddos. And some real funnies like these! I love the sentences Brielle (my 18yo daughter with CP) comes up with.

  3. I think it's pretty awesome that you could come up with an antonym for veranda! :-)

    I can see it now -- a Cars 2 Talking Lightning McQueen themed bar mitzvah. Let the good times roll!

  4. I come up with band-related sentences for vocabulary words:

    The flute section was nonplussed when they received their Rites of Tamburo parts.

  5. Ellen, Those sentences are the best! I love the way kids' minds invent such winning creations! I've never met a kid who didn't go through periods of having an ever-loving favorite special character, show, etc. that they build their world around. He must get his sense of humor from you--run screaming down the street naked! There's nothing better than laughing with your child.Thanks for putting a smile on my face!
    Best wishes,
    Laurie Hollman (

  6. It feels really, really good to laugh. Yes it does. Laughter is the best medicine (Reader digest's quote)


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